Tuesday, July 7, 2009

GOD HAS A PLAN FOR YOU




A friend of mine on Tagged stated in their profile, "That they had messed up in their first relationship". Additionally stating, "it was impossible to find someone to love and they did not think that there was another soul mate for them out there".



Well I want to address the above statements, because I have been married twice and I truly believe that God has someone out there for me, because I do not think that they were my soul mates.I think a soul mate is someone sent to you by God. Just think about what the bible says,"What God has put together let no man put it under". Well God gave us the ability of choice..in fact we are the only living creatures he created this way; therefore we make our own choices. A choice is not designed by God it is given by him as our free spirit. God does speak to us (it is that inner feeling I believe of right and wrong). I believe that if what you have chosen is from God everything will fall into place naturally, which means to me that it will pretty much be effortless. I truly believe this to be the case.

In conclusion my friends take heart and know that for everyone there is a someone...if we are only still and listen to that voice of reasoning (not ours) and give our will over to God. May each of you be touched by love on this earth, but always remember that the greatest love is your Heavenly Father for you.

SETTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT



I would like to set the record straight regarding a blog I wrote titled "Your Words Can Cut Like a Knife". Please note that this blog was about words and how it can effect someone whether one realizes it or not. I have also come to realize if my supervisor had read my blog my words might of offended her and that is not and was not my intent.

My supervisor and friend did react as I described in my blog that day, but mention of her behavior that day in no way describes her as a person. I would like to state for the record that I refer to her as our butterfly or Sunshine, because she is constantly moving about-the ultimate description of a social butterfly and her personality lights up a room just as sunshine does. She has a way of making friends with everyone she meets and has a laugh that reminds one of a babbling brook, so refreshing and it draws you in making you want to laugh as well. She is a not an affection person in the sense that she is demonstrative, but she does show her concern and love in so many more ways. She has often made me cry (in a good way) with something she has complimented me on, or in a card she has given me, or just like she did several weeks ago surprising me with a gift card for all the hard work I had been doing..not because she had to do this simply because she wanted to, which made this so much more special.

At times you might not like what she has to say, because she is so straight forward with her words. I think it it is better than the people who beat around the bush or hide their feelings, because at least you know where you stand with her. Her honesty with you is something that needs to be appreciated even if it might hurt at the time.

I hope this blog has set the record straight about a woman who I do love and care about and whom I am glad to call my supervisor and friend.